Friday, September 09, 2005

One of R’s cousin ,almost of his age has come to India ..,he has done his BDS and is working abroad.His parents r searching a bride for him since a long time(even before my marriage)….but he doesn’t seem to like any girl,and had been rejecting all the proposals till now,,everybody was getting irritated by his irrational behaviour..,it seemd to everyone that “may be he thinks himself too smart and so feels no girl is a suitable match for him…
But he has a problem…..
Yesterday he confided in R and told him that he loves a girl (also a BDS) at his work place…he loves a lot,cannot think of any other girl …AND …. that girl is a divorcee
He said he had seen her getting married and also seen her mirage breaking…he always felt that she was innocent and had a soft corner for her….this soft corner slowly developed into love for her….Now..his parents a dead against his relation with this girl,and r searching for girl elsewhere…he tried to convince then in every possible manner,but they don’t understand his emotions and feelings for her…
I wonder people in this era can be so narrow minded…how can they be so cruel?Why should they oppose their sons wish to marry a divorcee? Just the fact that she is a divorcee cannot deprive her from love again in her life…Why will the society have objections if a person is trying to give a better life to a poor girl????

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