THE GIRL NEXT DOOR!!

We had to attend a wedding yesterday.We were invited from the brides side.I personally didn’t know anyone,just knew that bride was our nieghbours daughter(I still didn’t become soo friendly with my inlaws neightbourhood!).
Since morning I had been noticing that hubby dear was being extra-cautious about how I would dress up in the evening.He asked me several times what I had decided to wear.Finally we decided that I would wear a ghagra-choli(simple,decent,slightly difficult to carry but elegant).In the evening again when I was selecting my lipstick n other accessories ,my husband suddenly said…’that shade of lipstick doesn’t match,see for another’ and mumbled ‘u have to look your best today’…I was startled at this(not that he doesn’t give me tips on dressing,but he never comments on things I choose and is never adamant)..
Ok…anyways,when he gave a final ‘YES’ nod to my looks,we went to the function hall.
It was all going on fine,I had dinner with few other friends.Then the girls mom introduced me to few ladies(the brides cousins and aunts).I was then surprised ,cuz when ever I happened to glance this group of ladies,I found that they were staring at me,as if inspecting me from all directions.This was quite annoying,and made me feel very self-conscious and forced me to wonder if I was looking weird or was something ridiculously wrong with me…I couldn’t guess .!
We returned home(by that time I was totally enraged) and as soon as we entered I started grumbling and complained to my hubby ,that I was feeling very awkward and out of place because of the SUDDEN UNEXPECTED AND MOST UNWANTED INSPECTION AND SCRUTINY I had to face …
Hubby started laughing ,asked me to calm down and said that he had intuition something like this would happen.He then told me they(the bride’s people)had sent a proposal for my husband,and wanted their daughter to be married to him,..but cuz my hubby had already told about his choice( that’s a proud ME) to his parents it didn’t work up.Nowww….i understood that the group of ladies as probably inspecting me to find out “Ismay aisa kya hai jo hamari ladhki may nahi(what is so special about her)”..

I asked my hubby (excited) what was special,and he said…”if I had seen her before I saw u ,I woulnt have proposed u”(winking and and giving a crooked,notorious smile)..I pretended to be angry with him for while,before we had a good laugh!!!

BETTER LATE THAN NEVER…

Too often we don’t realise
What we have,until its gone,
Too oftern we wait to late to say,
“I am sorry- I was wrong”..

Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones we hold
Dearest to our hearts.
And we allow foolish things to
Tear our lives apart..
Far too many times we let unimportant things,into our mind,
And then its usually too late to see what made us blind..

So be sure that you let people know ,
How much they mean to you,
Take that time to say the words before,
Your time is through..
Be sure you appreciate everything got,
And be thankful for the little things in life,
That to u mean a lot..

I dont know what i want to write here today...just wanna say...i am in a very off mood today...its 3 am ...still not able to sleep....my mind is working,non stop,and i dont know what is going on in it...hah!!!!!

here's my list..:

7 things u want to do before u die….

1)Go for a world tour,with my hubby
2)Be a mother..
3)Meet every need of my husband….haha!…..i want him to depend totally on me f
for all his needs
4)Do justice to my profession…I want t be a verrrrrry good doctor
5)Meet M atleast for a second…infact see him face to face atleast once…
6)Peform Hajj(holy pilgrimage of muslims) ,Know the meaning of Quran( though I recite
it ,I understand only a few things)
7)Learn swimming.

7 things u can do:

1)love senselessly
2)be a very good friend.
3)handle situations more than I think I can!
4)wake up each day and tell myself…”that life is great,make the best of it”
5)make a crying baby quite….i can deviate them very easily
6)make someone believe that-“ things don’t get better by worrying about them.The
best thing is to do ur best and have faith in God”…..so it not good to be down.
7)any amount of sleep,day dream…..and laze around

7 things u cant do:

1)hurt others purposely
2)tell lies to my mom and hubby
3)stop myself from thinking about M atleast once everyday…(and I hate myself
for this)
4)hide my emotions…(if iam angry,iam /if iam happy,iam /if iam in love ,I
am/ifam hurt,I am,my eyes get filled automatically,and the lump in my throat
doesn’t permit me to be normal…I CANT HIDE MY FEELINGS!
5)stop myself from buying more than I intent to if I go for shopping
6)use an unclean and stinky washroom
7)develop a liking for cats and dogs…just cant

7 things u find attractive in opposite sex:

1)Command, ability to organize things,Dignity
2)Intelligence,
3) smartness,spontaneity(should be able to sort out things,)
4)Sense of humour…(should be able to enjoy what ever life gives,and not wait
for only big things to happen and bring a smile on his face)
5)Broad shoulders,Hairy chest(not too much hair,but hair has to be their.),intense
and passionate eyes(to send a current through my spine..haha!!)
6)Should smell good
7)Sincerity,ease,manners,respect for others.


7 things u say most:

1)Mammu,sweetu,jaan meri
2)mithu
3)acchaaji…aur kuchhh!
4)uhmm…hmm…yea
5)okkkk
6)nah!…nahi karo
7)its like…(u can see my previous post also ,how often I use it)

7 celebrity crushes:

1)Tom Cruise.
2)Brad Pitt.
3)Hugh Grant.
4)Rajiv Gandhi.
5)Rahul Dravid
6)Sonu Nigam
7)Prince Willaims.

7 people u want to take this quiz:

1)The one who tagged me!!..my new friend.(though I know she has already given
her list)
2)my hubby R
3)M –hmm…friend(I know I cant tell him about this…we r not in touch…he
doesn’t write a blog……and he DOESN’T know tht I have started writing here)
4)Nikita-friend
5)Bhavna-friend
6)Rahul/Sparsh.-friend
7)Siddu-my cousin

10 reasons why one must work...

1)Its great to know that u are capable of putting a roof over your head.

2)Financial independence….no more asking money for minor things.

3)U can buy anyyything u like(and ofcourse afford).No matter how indulgent parents n spouses are they sometimes don’t seem to understand why u have to spend thousands of rupees for a pair of heels…haha!

4)Confidence-the very feeling that u r a part of the organization shows you that you are capable..

5)Exposure-You get to meet some really powerful tycoons,intellectuals,politicians etc through your work….even if u r a teacher u might be teaching Shahrukh Khan’s son..doc might treat many VIPs..u learn how to mingle around with different kinds of personalities..

6)Doing something constructive in life…..being idle is very uncoool

7)Power- the more successful your organization the more clout you get outside…Its like she is a doc from so n so hospital…

8)To be at peace with oneself…..work place can do wonders to bring u out of any depressions,sorrows etc…..collegues can give you a change of mood

9)helps develop individuality,self reliance……n

10)SELF RESPECT…

haa…..Thank God am woking

One of R’s cousin ,almost of his age has come to India ..,he has done his BDS and is working abroad.His parents r searching a bride for him since a long time(even before my marriage)….but he doesn’t seem to like any girl,and had been rejecting all the proposals till now,,everybody was getting irritated by his irrational behaviour..,it seemd to everyone that “may be he thinks himself too smart and so feels no girl is a suitable match for him…
But he has a problem…..
Yesterday he confided in R and told him that he loves a girl (also a BDS) at his work place…he loves a lot,cannot think of any other girl …AND …. that girl is a divorcee
He said he had seen her getting married and also seen her mirage breaking…he always felt that she was innocent and had a soft corner for her….this soft corner slowly developed into love for her….Now..his parents a dead against his relation with this girl,and r searching for girl elsewhere…he tried to convince then in every possible manner,but they don’t understand his emotions and feelings for her…
I wonder people in this era can be so narrow minded…how can they be so cruel?Why should they oppose their sons wish to marry a divorcee? Just the fact that she is a divorcee cannot deprive her from love again in her life…Why will the society have objections if a person is trying to give a better life to a poor girl????

Had night duty day before yesterday,continued duty till afternoon yesterday.....it was tiring.But today i have post duty off.......thinking how to trouble my hubby........hahaha.
Got up at 10 in the morning,saw what the cook made,didnt like it,made some sandwitch.....reading newspaper ate that.....then took a sip of tea from my hubby cup...
now he is studying some medical journal and iam doing time pass.....
hmmmmmmm.......this one is goood....

ONLY TAKES MINUTE

It only takes a minute,
To say a word of cheer.

It only tkes a minute,
To dry a falling tear.

It only takes a minute,
To lend a helping hand.

It only takes a minute,
To try to understand.

It only takes a minute,
To make and keep a friend,
Some broken heart to mend.

It only takes a minute,
To brighten someones day,

Then use this every minute,
Before it slips away....

Nice!!!!! but after reading this wonder if i should be doing more timepaas or sit with my hubby to read the journal!!!!!!haha.......